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How to Fight Seasonal Depression Naturally

Dear Reader:

Winter can be a tough time for a lot of people. The days are shorter, the weather is colder, and it can feel like there’s less to look forward to. For some people, these months can trigger seasonal affective disorder (SAD), also known as winter depression or the “winter blues.” According to American Family Physicians, approximately 4 to 6 percent of people are affected by SAD. While the exact cause of SAD is unknown, it is believed to be related to the body’s production of serotonin, a hormone that helps regulate mood.

Please note that none of the information contained in this blog entry is medical advice; it is just general information. 

Signs and Symptoms may include:

  • Feelings of sadness, despair, and hopelessness
  • Loss of interest in daily activities and hobbies
  • Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much
  • Changes in appetite or weight
  • Thoughts of not wanting to live
  • Having trouble focusing

Fortunately, there are several natural strategies that can help you cope with seasonal depression. If you’re feeling down in the dumps this season and are looking for some natural ways to help, here are four things you can do:

Get Some Sunlight Every Day

One of the main causes of SAD is a lack of sunlight. Make an effort to get outside for at least 30 minutes every day, even if it’s just to take a walk around the block. If it’s cloudy or cold outside, try sitting near a window to get some natural light. You can also buy a light therapy lamp, which emits a bright light that can help improve your mood.

How Sunlight Can Help with SAD

Sunlight helps improve your mood by boosting levels of serotonin, a chemical in your brain that helps regulate your mood. In addition to getting outside more often, there are other things you can do to get more sunlight. For example, sit near a window when you’re indoors, take a walk during your lunch break, or set up a light therapy lamp in your home or office. Light therapy lamps emit a bright light that can help relieve symptoms of SAD. 

Exercise Regularly

When it comes to fighting depression, exercise is a powerful tool. Research has shown that moderate amounts of exercise can be highly effective in boosting mood and alleviating symptoms of anxiety and depression. The key is to find an activity that you enjoy and stick with it. brisk walking, jogging, biking, and swimming are all great options. aim for 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week. and don’t forget to cool down and stretch afterward. Taking some time for yourself will do wonders for your mental health.

Eat a Healthy Diet

What you eat has a big impact on your mental health. Eating lots of processed and sugary foods can make depression symptoms worse while eating nutrient-rich foods can help improve your mood. Make sure to include plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean protein, and healthy fats in your diet. Also, limit or avoid caffeine as it can make anxiety and sleep problems worse. Researchers have found that certain nutrients are particularly important for mental health. For example, omega-3 fatty acids are essential for brain function and are thought to protect against cognitive decline. Magnesium is involved in over 300 biochemical reactions in the body and is known as the “relaxation mineral” due to its ability to ease muscle tension and promote sleep. tryptophan is a precursor to serotonin, which is a key neurotransmitter for regulating mood. So, make sure to include these nutrients in your diet to support your mental health.

Connect with Others

When you’re dealing with depression, it’s easy to feel like you’re all alone in your struggle. But the truth is that depression is a very common condition, and many people understand what you’re going through. Connecting with others can be a crucial part of maintaining your mental health. Talking to friends and family members about your depression can be a great way to start. Just expressing what you’re feeling can help you to feel better. There are also many support groups available for people with depression. These groups can provide valuable information and support. Seeing a therapist is another great option if you’re struggling with depression. A therapist can help you to understand your condition and develop healthy coping mechanisms. No matter what route you choose, human connection is essential for dealing with depression.

If you are experiencing feelings of depression during the winter months, it is important to speak with your healthcare provider. They can help you identify the cause of your mood changes and recommend appropriate treatments. In addition, connecting with a supportive community or seeking professional counseling can be very helpful for managing depression. By making these changes, you can improve your overall mental health and enjoy a happier, more fulfilling life!

HABITS IN THE BIBLE

woman hands raised towards heaven

Dear Reader, 

The Bible is a compilation of 66 books written by 40 different authors over a span of about 1600 years. I know, right?!

The Bible is not just a book, it’s an entire library. It’s full of stories, histories, and instructions for living. The Bible has been translated into more than 1075 languages and dialects and has sold over 5 billion copies. Amazing!

It can be difficult to read the bible from start to finish because it was never intended to be read that way. Stop doing that! You need to study the bible in order to get the most out of it; this means reading it in context with other parts of the bible and in chronological order as much as possible.

The Bible is a book with many words that can teach us many lessons. One of the lessons it teaches us is the importance of habits. Even though the bible does not directly mention habits, it does contain lessons about them: both good and bad. The following are stories in the bible that can tell us about how good habits can lead to great results in life.

DAVID AND GOLIATH

This lesson is taught through the story of David and Goliath. David is a shepherd boy who has never fought in battle before, but he has a strong faith in God and he takes on Goliath with nothing but his sling and five stones. He defeats Goliath because he has practiced his slingshot skills so often that it becomes second nature to him to hit his target every time.

The Bible teaches us that if we want to be successful then we must have good habits, as David did with his slingshot skills so that they become second nature and easy for us to do them without any effort at all.

ESTHER

Esther was a stranger in a strange land. She was taken from her home and had to keep her heritage a secret. In spite of it all, she kept up with her Jewish faith and practices. She still prayed to the God of Abraham. When she heard that her people would be slaughtered, she took that fight up with her God and relied on God’s word. She then took it up with her earthly master, the king. He was so taken by her honor and her beauty that he let the lapse in procedure go and gave her what she wanted. Her habit of prayer and keeping God first never wavered. She even became the queen of Persia, how’s that for God’s faithfulness!

DANIEL

The story in God’s word goes that Daniel prayed every single day with his windows open toward Jerusalem. People knew that and so they tried to set him up. His faith in God was tested when there was a law passed to stop everyone from praying to anyone, not the king. Daniel did it anyways. Daniel could’ve at least shut his window; he did not. He had the habit of praying to face Jerusalem and openly. He did not change it, not even for the law.

JESUS CHRIST

Jesus had a habit of going away and praying. He would isolate himself and talk to His Father. He would go to caves, to mountains, to hide under the boat, etc. This was a practice that would’ve frustrated me as a disciple. Can’t you see all these people need help? Why do you need to go away right now? Stay with us!

Jesus knew what he was doing. This habit was because he knew he could not continue to pour from an empty cup. He was working on himself so that he could have more to give to others. This awareness drew him nearer to the Father and improved his life and the lives of others around him. Let us also get that habit of going away to talk alone with God.

HABITS IN THE BIBLE

Habits are not mentioned in the Bible per se. However, there are mentions of things we should not do that can be characterized as bad habits. It says not to be overly drunk with wine. It admonishes us about continual grumbling and complaining. These are habits that God wants us to strive to rid ourselves of. Therefore, habits both good and bad habits make an appearance in the bible.

Good Habits to Cultivate

  1. Daily Prayer and Bible Reading. This is the bread and water of those who walk with God and read God’s words.
  2. Daily Silence. This is where we pause and reflect on what God wants from us today.
  3. Good Nutrition. This habit helps us to continue to engage with God and his people on this earth.
  4. Movement of the body God has entrusted us. This habit will keep us on this earth as His Example.
  5. Sunlight. This might be hard in the winter, but God created us to thrive in natural light. He wants us to have abundant health.
  6. Journaling. Reflection, especially on God’s word will make you grow strong in God.

 CONCLUSION
These habits are not exhaustive, but they are a good place to start in trying to grow in the Lord and spiritual disciplines. It is good to follow God’s word and have good habits. Keep the faith and get to work. Faith without works is dead. What other habits would you add to this list? What habits would you like to share with others that would help them too?

Domestic Violence and the Holidays

Dear Reader:

The holidays are often a time of joy and community, but for people in abusive relationships, they can be stressful and dangerous. Abusive partners may use the holidays as an opportunity to control and isolate their victims. They may also become more violent during this time of year, due to increased stress and alcohol consumption. If you have a family member in an abusive relationship, how you react is important. 

Please note that none of the information contained in this discussion is legal advice. 

Here are some tips to help you stay safe during the holiday season.

Communication

One of the most important things you can do to support a survivor of domestic violence is to stay in communication with them. This can be difficult, as their abuser may try to isolate them from friends and family. However, maintaining regular contact can let the survivor know they are not alone and help them to stay connected to the outside world. You can discuss safe times and ways to communicate and consider setting up a code word or phrase that will let the survivor know they can reach out for help if they need it. By staying in communication, you can provide essential support for the survivor during a difficult time.

Planning for visits

When survivors of domestic abuse are planning visits with family or friends, they often have to take extra precautions to ensure their safety. They may carpool with someone else to make sure they have a way to leave if necessary, or they may plan an escape route in case of an emergency. It’s also important for them to have a support system in place that they can rely on if needed. By taking these precautions, survivors can help make sure that they are safe and protected in case of an emergency. 

If your family is the problem, then may I make a radical suggestion : DON’T GO.  is customary to spend holidays with family but not at the price of your health and safety. Maybe this is the year you decline that toxic invitation. 

Plan for Alone time

The holiday season is a wonderful time of year, but it can also be overwhelming. There are parties to attend, gifts to buy, and family members to please. Amid all the chaos, it’s important to schedule some time for yourself. This may mean taking a break from social media, saying no to parties or commitments you don’t want to attend, or taking some time each day to do something you enjoy. It’s also important to practice self-care during this time and make sure you’re staying healthy and rested. Remember that you deserve to enjoy the holidays too! By taking some time for yourself, you can avoid holiday burnout and make the most of this special time of year.

Conclusion

The holidays can be a stressful and dangerous time for people in abusive relationships, but by staying in communication with survivors, planning for visits and alone time, and practicing self-care, you can support the survivor in your life and help them stay safe during this difficult time. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please seek help from a qualified professional. With support and resources, it is possible to overcome abuse and find healing and happiness.

If you need a permission slip to not go to a holiday gathering that will break your spirit, you have mine. Stay Safe. 

Tips for Staying Financially Fit this Holiday Season

Dear Reader: 

The holiday season is upon us once again! ‘Tis the season of giving, and that often means spending. Lots of spending. But just because everyone else is racking up credit card debt doesn’t mean you have to. This is the perfect opportunity to get creative and save some money. So before you start your holiday shopping, check out these tips for staying financially fit this holiday season.

Set a budget—and stick to it!

The first step to staying financially fit during the holidays is to set a budget—and then stick to it. Determine how much you can afford to spend on gifts, travel, food, etc., and then make a list of all the people you need to buy for. Once you know how much money you have to work with, you can start getting creative with your gift-giving.

Get creative and save money

1. Set a budget and stick to it

2. Get creative with your gift-giving

3. Shop sales and use coupons

4. Make your gifts

5. Draw names in your family or group of friends

6. Exchange services instead of gifts

7. Have a potluck party instead of catering

8. Celebrate at home instead of going out

9. Delay some of your holiday spendings until after the holidays

10. Use a credit card that offers cash back or rewards

Get crafty!

One of the best ways to save money during the holidays is to DIY as many gifts as possible. This year, why not crochet a scarf for your Aunt Martha or bake some homemade cookies for your neighbor? Not only will your loved ones appreciate the thoughtfulness of a handmade gift, but they’ll also be impressed by your mad crafting skills!

Make a holiday savings plan

If you know you’re going to need extra cash for holiday expenses like travel and gifts, start saving now! Open up a dedicated savings account and set aside a little bit of money each week leading up to the holidays. This way, when December rolls around, you’ll have one less thing to worry about.

Shop smart

When it comes time to do your holiday shopping, take advantage of deals and discounts whenever possible. Join retailers’ email lists so you can be among the first to know about sales, and search for coupons before heading to the store or checkout page. You can also download cash-back apps like Ibotta or Rakuten to earn money back on your holiday purchases. Just be sure not marry any purchase just because it’s discounted—only buy what you need (and will use)!

Use rewards points

If you’ve been racking up rewards points all year long, now’s the time to cash them in! Many retailers offer bonus points or special rewards during the holidays, so be sure to take advantage of those if possible. You can also use points from credit cards or loyalty programs like Airlines Rewards to help offset travel costs or score some freebies for your friends and family.

The holidays don’t have to break the bank! By following these simple tips, you can stay financially fit this holiday season without sacrificing quality or quantity when it comes to gift giving—or anything else. So put down that credit card and get creative! Your wallet (and your loved ones) will thank you for it later.